Does Feminine Energy Attract?
When we imagine feminine energy, we often envision something excessively alluring, colorful, and glamorous, but when we look at nature, it's clear that these are masculine traits.
The very act of being obvious is a masculine quality.
By perceiving feminine energy as something that "needs to be displayed," we make our biggest mistake at the very first step.
The need to prove or hear how beautiful, sexy, alluring, or attractive we are is precisely a sign of how disconnected we are from our feminine energy.
When we try to prove or show off our feminine energy, we lose a lot of energy, we become tense, we feel disappointed, and we often end up in relationships that aren’t meant for us.
In this constant need for approval, we deny the reality of our existence.
I’ve talked about the system’s beauty standards, which are based on appearance, in many of my previous writings and publications.
Feminine energy can be expressed as a show, as a conscious choice or for enjoyment, but when this becomes its sole purpose, it deviates from its true nature.
In fact, feminine energy is often invisible, veiled. It draws attention in an inexplicable way. In feminine energy, we admire how it is centered within itself, how it remains in acceptance and calm, how it creates an open space, and how it extends a subtle invitation. What attracts us is the effortless presence within that energy and the soft call that invites completion without force.
We recognize feminine energy by its silence; like a black hole, it can pull us in and make us lose our sense of time and space. With its undefined power of attraction, it creates movement around it and then chooses.
Think about it: the deeper the feminine energy, the stronger its pull.
In Turkish, there’s a word: *yırtınmak* (to struggle intensely). The more we “struggle” under the guise of “elevating” our feminine energy, the more we try to dance beautifully, to look beautiful, the more we must confront this:
Why do you need this?
If you knew that feminine energy begins when you stop “struggling,” what’s the first thing you would stop doing?